GIMA, ah heck what Gnosis thinks, a brotherly hug ain't nothin' to be ashamed of! (((GIMA)))
Yups it sucks. As if all that had happened did not already communicate clearly the lack of respect, regard, connection that the 2 of you should be having. Think of it as perhaps W not having the guts to face you or the reality of the situation. Kind of like disregard via proxy. While it's still nothing good, that's easier to understand that an outright decision to coldly kick you when you're down.
Your feelings are all only too human and understandable. You've always conducted yourself with dignity. You know all too well how unbridled, unreasoning anger and resentment will go. I'm sure you'll feel what you have to feel, deal with it, and take it on as the good man you are.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.