Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

ok,

Here's the deal. I really have NO way to know what my W is doing in reference to the OM. I had hired a PI to PROVE one of the A, and it did just that-although W is in complete denial about all of them.

My W, I know is involved with a few different men. I believe she is doing this for a few reasons.

1. She needs these men in her life to validate what she is doing to our M.

2. She needs these men in her life to make her feel good about herself.

3. She needs these men in her life, as a lifeline, because of her wanting a D.

I, from where I am right now, do not have the intel, or the resources to bust these A's.

How can I affect them from overseas, and yet still continue to DB, without any intel or knowledge of what/who she is seeing?