did NOT call her on New years eve. She Did call me the next day to wish me happy new year.I told her i was Out with some friends and left it at that. I made no mention of missing her or being interested in her activities.
Great job!! If you will continue on this path and be able to detach without acting like a jerk in the process.....I think you'll see her drawing in closer to see why you aren't acting all clingy & needy. Women want a man who is hard to get and who doesn't fall all over her. So, don't be too available to her. As one person said, you almost have to act like the WAH in order to get her eyes open.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
