Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Thanks Sandi. This is the 2nd time since we've been married that the W has had to deal with this scenario. So I have experience from the 1st one to go off of, and although I relfect I did "so-so" the first time, I know I wasn't there enough. I know I am a better preson, husband, father this time around. So maybe you are right and I am in a bit of overkill mode right now, trying too hard. I don't need to try too hard, I know what to do.

I also have reflected back on what happened last time. She held up well for a couple of days when she had too, and then when she didn't have to be strong in public, she fell into a bit of a pit and that's when I didn't do as well as I should have. I am prepared for it this time.

Confident. I have to be strong and confident!