My guess is that she gets her ego fed from the OM....but in real life tough stuff....she knows who is her piller of strength. I could be wrong, but I think that is a very positive sign that she has turned to you in this dark time.

Don't tell her ILY again. Don't fall into the trap of TM to see how she's doing (b/c it would be easy). The important thing now is for you to not "over kill" trying so hard. Just be there to listen to her. You said it yourself, it's about her right now. Don't dare say anything about OM or if you went too far, etc......just don't mention any of that b/c it would make you look very weak. Just let that go b/c she tried to turn it off a good way.

Listen to her concerns. Validate where you can. Let her lead with the physical moves. You did right by holding her when she needed it.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!