My H contacted me last june wanting to move forward with the next steps towards divorce...i'm sure the bug in his ear was pushing him along...but I told him I would not go to mediation..I need to protect myself and my children....I got books about divorce went and talked to an attorney who I will use if pushed....she was wonderful...I felt so much better after I left...Haven't heard anymore on the subject...my guess is he will file in June when our middle daughter turns 18, that way he only pays for 1.....dirty yes but we'll see...
My H does take care of us...he gives me his paycheck as it is direct deposited...in my opinion it is cheaper for him to stay married to me...I would get lifetime alimony as long as I don't marry....he works every day...but we don't really hear from him...he is in withdraw....totally withdrawn from us..weird kind of withdraw...but then he texts me on Christmas to tell me Merry Christmas and to tell my mom and dad hello? i didn't get that but blew it off....
he stays with his girlfriend most of the time I believe...he uses his sister's address...and pays nothing to either one...now I would do that for about a month then pay up....it's all their loss....they don't realize how great they had it....
I don't even like my H right now...she can have him....
Last edited by Treese; 01/06/1001:40 AM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
