IMHO, unless he's being a jerk, I don't see why ignoring the texts is the right action. I'm not sure that anything you say will result in a positive reaction either...but...again, my mind goes to what is most respectful, whether or not he is being that way.
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He HATES that he has the supervised visits and he hasn't made the changes necessary so fighting them in court may be a bit off. If he can bully me he will.
He just sent the following text: Exh: I would like to be with her the next time you go out. Not too much to ask. So, where did you go?
this is why I think he doesn't come for his visits much and doesn't stay as long. and the reason he keeps trying to take her by himself.
I would validate his want to spend time with her, and ignore the other part because that is the part he doesn't need to know. IF he really IS wanting to spend time with her alone...why is that bad? perhaps it's all a ploy for something else, but how do you know.
I would say, "I love that you want to spend time with baby, if you have someone that can supervise in my place, have them call me and I will try to let you know next time I make plans"
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
