Hang in there GF!

As for what dday said, I would apply that to all of us husbands. We know when we're doing wrong, but nagging and guilt-tripping always backfire. MWD has some good stuff on that.

And here's one for you. If you've already read it, read again!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_take_care_of_yourself.htm

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK