One life / But we're not the same

[Silver Fox]

And what's that other saying? Something about only watering the grass makes it greener.

Hi everyone and MichelleLT - I've read your thread off and on. I'm anxiously awaiting a settlement conference tomorrow with H. I'll probably be D sometime in Feb. - THREE YEARS after H moved out.

H tried to push it through quickly and split everything even steven and stay "friends". I was the one to say hold on buddy - abandonment/adultery? Then he slowed way down and practically disappeared.

I'm glad it took this long. I was not ready but now yes, the trigger needs to be pulled.

I'll probably join this forum in a few months!