She still works with him, although indirectly. But I feel it's that constant contact with him that is holding her down.
I agree. Do you know what his attitude toward her is at this time? Seeing him must keep her emotions in turmoil.
If she believes that "you" are what maikes her so unhappy, then why does she not refuse to join you and the kids in family things? The two of you seem to share a lot of time (with the girls, but with each other) to suppose to be a S couple. I can't even imagine how frustrated you must get. You can't really move forward and she doesn't seem to be able to move past her EA, so it's a mess.
Stuck, I want you to know that if I don't say much....it's simply b/c I don't know what to say at this time. (You know I care.) I really know of no other souce except for God and to continue to pray that the answer will come before it's too late for all of you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
