I received a pleasant email from my W with a blank separation agreement. (Hoping that I had enjoyment over the holidays.)
The first paragraph of the agreement was:
"Name and Name acknowledge and agree that as a result of irreconcilable differences between them, as of (date) will be living separate and apart and will continue that way for the rest of their lives. Each shall be free from interference, authority and control by the other as if each were unmarried. In addition, (name) and (name) intend the terms of this agreement to be:"
The language "the rest of their lives" is so strong. There is a reconciliation clause but I wept for 1/2 hour when I received it. It just seems that my W is so resolved to end the marriage. Please pray that God would soften my W's heart so she can see that I am working on the changes I need to.
On a positive, she has done some of the homework the C is requesting. I am hoping that is a sign that she will continue on with MC.