Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

I may have screwed up slightly, not sure, this is kind of unchartered territory dealing with a suicide and everything the W has had to deal with including talking to the family of the deceased.

I sent her a text saying "I think you need to know, I LOVE YOU." I know I'm not supposed to say the L word to a WAW unless they are ready and she isn't...I guess I let my emotions go to far, but this is tough on her and deep down, it was probably an attempt on my part to try to help prevent her from running to the OM for emotional support. Yes, it is just killing me not knowing if she has e-mailed him to share what she has gone thru, and I don't dare ask...she has opened up a little to me and I don't need to kill that and this is about her right now, I am just trying my damnest to be the supportive/loving/caring H. I want to be able to show the changed me can and will provide emotional support.

Did I screw up? Do I need to make sure I do everything in my power not to go there again?

Her text response was a smily face and "Thank you..."