He always writes in lower-case - he is a 2 finger typer and can't be bothered with capitals. It was really hard for me to write that he is a good dad - he is a good dad for one who left his family to live full-time with his affair partner and her 4 kids full-time. I just left that part unsaid
Before the truth came out (the only time he ever showed any remorse), I remember him crying to me that he was a failure as a husband, a father, a man....I kept telling him No! back then, clueless dolt I was. Now I see it. Sad that he went to such lengths to be "happy," without regards to who and what he hurt along the way, only to find himself with this mess. I'm still not convinced that he would even consciously recognize himself as going through a hard time, though. Bet if you asked him, things are wonderful!
