Your baby steps are bigger than mine. Steps are steps and I have to keep a positive attitude about even the smallest ones. The next goal is for W to call me just to talk.

I wish I could get to "I love you," but I'll have to be patient. She's still in a weird place and as things settle down and I'm no longer a threat I think she'll soften.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)