You are still so afraid of pissing him off, stirring the pot - tell me, is he afraid you'll get mad so he doesn't meet with other woman, drink and do drugs? Let him get mad! He is a grown-up and can have any reaction that he wants - it has nothing to do with you.
My first gut reaction to why I am afraid is for example...right now I am thinking did this piss him off so much that he is down at his attorney's office filing papers to take me back to court to get unsupervised time? What if he somehow lies and proves that he is stable? on and on goes my mind! I know its reaching and I need to stop the mind movies. So I guess honestly, deep down, I am afraid of pissing him off for fear of what he will do.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
