Interesting thoughts, hadn't heard that about the LBS making the final decision.

Do you mean just Marriage in the legal sense? Or the entire R?

Seems to me that the majority of D's happen very quickly. Though that certainly hasn't been the case for most of on here.

I do have a friend who's W filed immediately at S and finalized at 60-day waiting mark. Maybe just urban legend, but my impression was that's the norm.

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK