realize now that I didn't validate my W's feelings at that time and I regret that everyday now. I wish I could change that.
No point in dwelling in the past, so move forward.
Originally Posted By: mza8
If she says that she will only go for closure should I still go or wait a bit longer?
IMHO, go no matter what. Tell her you don't want a D (make it known!), that you're seeing an IC, that you're on meds and the last thing you said:
"I am so committed to my wife and our marriage. I'm doing everything I can to try and understand her feelings. I want to do this for me and for us. I want to be the best husband I can be for my wife."
TELL HER!!!!!!!! I am really rooting for you, man! _________________________
