I don't know either. I do know that those are some of the kinds of things that people deal with over in Piecing, which is why I think I'm going to start a thread there.
My wife has always been the type to say "I don't want to dwell on the past, or over-think this. Let's just move on," but I'm of the "Those that fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it," kwim?
