I just brought up in our most recent MC session (on New Year's Eve day), that I want to start to get into some of the things surrounding my wife's affair two years ago. My wife cringed, but said she understood, and agreed, and the MC said she would help us.
It's not "dwelling" so much as it is wanting to have some greater level of understanding and insight, as I don't EVER want our marriage to get to such a painful place again!
