What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Ready2Change]

I let her have it

I would strongly suggest that you channel your anger in a different manner.

I have heard this somewhere : "Treat others the way you want to be treated"

Channel the anger into positive action:
Calmly (or on email/letter) "When you plan a family trip and not include me, I feel disrespected. I am angry (frustrated ect) that you would not include me in this decision, I am sad that you excluded me, I am sorry that _________ , I understand _______ , I want____________