Ahh, so I see it's "syrupy sweet" as the opening move, eh??
Originally Posted By: digger22
text me this morning that #1 baby slept through the night, #2 she will start moving to the guest house on thurs. (she has c appt. tonite and is going to stay at her moms)she is o.k with it and she just doesn't want to fight. and thanking me for helping last nite. #3 text about s and d #4 what time am I coming to the house. finally i write back "enough please"
What was your thought behind this comment? I'd advise IGNORING an excessive communications from her, not replying with something snarky like "Enough!"
As for this:
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I am thinking about writing a short note and leaving it in the house where she will be living. I want to say something like today we are together but we are heading in seperate directions. I think we just need to let go so we can get what we are after. and not to think of moving out of the house as a punishment, but rather an opportunity to live in a place without stress so that she can really focus on what she needs in life. thoughts?
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my initial reaction is "Too drama-queen." You're trying to preach to her, and you can't teach a wayward -- only reach them via short "truth darts." I'd omit this note.
As for the rest of it, you're really doing a lot of mind-reading -- a big "no-no" in DBing. There are a multitude of things her scribblings could mean, or her overnighter; best not to try to read too much into them at this stage, other than to remain on your guard.
