I worried about that too and she will probably put on a strong front and act like she has it all together and is doing fine without you,mine did and it was hard because I was torn up inside and just wanted to with her but she acted like she was just fine with out me.

I had to really work at,and still am working at GAL and let her see me as strong and independent and that I would be just fine with out her.Inside was still a mess but outside could not show that.

My wife was so afraid of feeling trapped and smothered again that as she began to see me doing my own thing and not calling her and emailing her etc. she felt more at ease around me and things slowly started to improve.


Married 28 yrs
Seperated 6 mths
Rec D Papers 11/24
W Canceled D
Moved Back Home 3/1/08
2 Kids D23 and S16
Trying 2 Put R Back Together