feel like giving up - talk to me!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I'm also confused at trying to give him a dose too. so basically this "so called" reverse psychology really doesn't count because you've been acting suspicious on purpose. If you were doing the same things, then I would have another answer.

He said, "ya know..I'm still here that should mean something....if I had some ow I wouldn't come home." Then says, "I feel like you are pushing me out...is that what you want..it seems to me like that's what you want?" - whoa is this reverse psychology or what? I listen but can't believe.

this is exactly what I've been talking about. I really think that HE feels his efforts aren't being reciprocated. not saying your not doing anything, or your not trying..I know you are...but are you trying in the right ways?

I keep seeing little things that show he's trying, and now he mentions that he thinks your pushing him away..and I don't think that is reverse psychology either. He's totally confused.

So, I ask again what steps did you take when he shows he's trying that you are reciprocating? do you think it is in the way of his top 5LLs? I ask this so you can figure out what is happening these last few weeks.

your goal for the next 8 days is to focus on you.

But I would suggest thinking over the last 3 weeks to see if you were showing him love in the way HE wants to receive it.