Also, I have found a piece of paper in a notebook that has impressions of a note she had wrote. I think it may be something she was writing for her counselor. I took a pencil and lightly colored it to try and make out what it says. here are some pieces that I have figured out. "believe that could be setting up any future relationships to failure" (i have told her that even if she doesn't want to work on the relationship with me, she will still need to figure some things out because she doesn't have the skills/knowledge to have a successful ltr).
"we wont be out of each others lives until the kids are grown and not even then really, so the best thing to do would be to work on us" "willing to lose each other" "disipline kids...."
sorry, hard to make out everything.
anyways I know that is the best thing for us that she is out and has time to really think of what she needs.
thanks all

Last edited by digger22; 01/05/10 08:47 PM.
me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months