Oh man, I'm so sorry. That really is a downer. I know it is hard to do right now but try to think about something positive. Get in a workout. The forum has prepared you well for this moment. You have a huge support system here. I wish I could have a beer with you too. Keep your head up you will make it. It's her loss!!!
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.