Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!


If you are okay with him having unsupervised when the courts make that decision...then you can also say, I'm sure you will do a great job watching her when the courts change their ruling after your able to show them your progress.



Very good. I will remember that if/when it comes up again. I think its more about control than anything else with exh. If he truly wanted to spend more time with baby he would be making ALL of his visits and staying the maximum amount of time. I think it was shocking to see that I actually went somewhere.

Originally Posted By: Hope4Luv
Hi = checking in ... how about just ignoring this text. At least for 24/48 hrs until you knows he has supervised visits, then asking you for unsupervised visits is ridiculous and is baiting. You should not be the one to remind him of this fact.


He HATES that he has the supervised visits and he hasn't made the changes necessary so fighting them in court may be a bit off. If he can bully me he will.

He just sent the following text:
Exh: I would like to be with her the next time you go out. Not too much to ask. So, where did you go?

I am not responding.

Boundaries!


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!