Your kids are younger and I can see shielding them. My D13 knows everything and my W told her on Oct 31st that she wanted a D and was never coming back. S9 on the otherhand knows it is mom's decision to continue to stay away, he asks her about it and she changes the subject or gets mad at him. I decided to tell him that she wants a divorce but that I was still trying. This was on Sunday morning after the late night Bar incident when I caught her liplocked with a random guy. My S9 started to cry and I got upset and I regreted telling him. He also could not go to sleep later that night, I had to lay down with him to get him to go to sleep. Later that day I told my wife that I had told him, I know she was relieved she did not have to do it, that was a mistake on my part.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
