Has he filed for divorce??....and have you stopped having hope for his return one day??? I sometimes want a divorce in order to get child support but then again I want to wait it out.....to tough it out till the end, I guess ...I am not saying I am staying home waiting for the phone to ring.I can and do make it on my own, butI miss not having what we used to have, extra money for little things..but the man he ahs become she can have...he is now a very lazy... plays games online all day, he doesn't work anymore.....how can a woman want a man like that...We had the best of them.....now they have lying, cheatin boyfriends...they are so pathetic..at least we are their wives...not just the woman who takes up with a married man.....I would not want to support any man......on the contrary I would want them to provide for me and my child.Go figure how they think.....