What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Guys,

Thanks for piping in with support. While the music sucked, it didn't bother me that much. I have detached. If that is how she feels...... I really hope she is happy as the song says she is. Anyway, I wish she would get the context correct. It's a song about an abusive alcoholic relationship.

I'm going to let it slide this time. I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt. If it happens again, I'm following Robx's advice. It will become my favorite tune.

I went to work had a great day. The folks at work love my new look. The contacts make a huge difference. I get positive comments all the time.

I went to the gym, had a good workout which was interrupted by constant texts from two women at the same time for about an hour........ Not my W. If she only knew. I am GAL.

On my way out, I ran into my W coming in. "Oh, Hi" I said with a smile. She asked what I was doing and when I got off work and then she said "I haven't been able to work out all day because I have been home with the carpet cleaners. They are gone now, so the coast is clear for you now" (sarcastic tone). I said "OK bye, have a good workout."

I have to go home and sleep anyway because I have to work all night..... of course she will be sleeping while I work. I thought give me some slack woman and let a guy get in an hour workout without nagging. It was a selfish comment on her part.

R2C... That s**t is pretty dark. Maybe I should get her an ihome for her birthday and load it up for her to wake up to.

Thursday, the family and I are heading down to Cancun, Mexico for my daughters gymnastics meet. It will be a nice little break. My wife arranged to take the entire family there behind my back. My kids let me know what was going on." we weren't supposed to tell you" I let her have it and arranged time off work to go down there too. I had to arrange a separate flight though.

BTW, her birthday is coming up at the end of the month. Any suggestions from the DB gallery????

Hey trying, I will check out your sitch.... It's nice to know another kindred spirit that is a member of the club.