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My ex ripped on OM#1 to me back in August.

She actually told me that her "new friend" wanted to beat him up for still trying to pursue her.

Talk about a WTF moment.

I lost my tounge during that conversation.

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That is a definite WTF moment.

here's a question for ya'll (i'm in nc you know)

did any of you engage in activities that seemed to be the only thing to calm your mind during this bottom scraping period.

I go and chip. I'm sure the guys at the golf course (little 9 hole muni) think I am insane... becuase I go every day. sometimes twice.

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Bradley,

Do whatever works for you.


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Some other books to check out:

The Five Love Languages-Gary Chapman
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus-John Gray


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.




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Originally Posted By: bradley11
I go and chip. I'm sure the guys at the golf course (little 9 hole muni) think I am insane... becuase I go every day. sometimes twice.

I believe the doctor version of Maslov hierarchy of needs has golf now listed in the physiological needs (ahead of sex).

Golf is something I started right after the bomb. It is a stupid game. I also like to go to the batting cages. Every ball is named Ed (OM). And hit the heavy bag at the gym. It helps to get rid of excess testosterone that make us men stupid.

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I was looking for the 5 love languages yesterday.. read men are from mars, probly need to again...

I'll have to look at maslov heirachy of needs too...

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Make sure to read some crap also. smile


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you mean like crap books?

I'm reading one... its a ghost story but I didn't know that it would involve the protagonist having sex with ghosts... thus reminding me of how much I'm not having.. so it sortof backfired.

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thus reminding me of how much I'm not having.. so it sortof backfired.


Sounds like a normal marriage to me : )



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Speak for yourself, Jack. smile


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