This is good. My kids are a little older and I have made it clear to my kids that this is my wife's decision, not mine. How did you and your W present it to your kids? Did she shoulder the blame or did you do it equally?

My wife and I have not sat down together with the kids, my wife still does not want to face my S9 and tell him the truth. There is my positive in my sitch, there is a glimmer of remorse or guilt that is keeping her from telling him that she is done.


Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison