Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Cutter, I am one step ahead! I have been taking S to classes since September. We are taking a music class and baby sign class this month. Next month will be music and gym. In April, we start swim classes! (April b/c he will be 9 months plus I will have lost 20+more pounds!

We currently are in a mommy-baby group too. So I have been meeting new moms since September and it's great! We visit with family 1 day per week as well.

And so believe me, WH hears "baby and I" all the time! But it pleases me to learn I'm already doing something you recommend!


P, yes I thought at one time I would go NC this month. But I don't feel like letting OW see S 6 days per week!!! I am so sorry to go back and forth b/c at one point I said I wasn't bothered anymore by OW seeing S when he takes him, but I was wrong.

As for cake eating, yep, and I will be holding out for awhile.WITH heavy emphasis on being distant and mysterious.I have done well for 2 days so far...it's a start and as long as I am consistent, it is successful for me and I can monitor results.

I know it seems like not much has changed, but I have changed! And DB coach said changes in WH would be slow but he will notice. And he has noticed a couple of my changes so far plus he has not filed for D. It has been 2 months since I told him I didn't want one; almost 3 since he brought it up!