He is just like that child pushing for an icecream, he will go on and on and on and on until he gets a smack and then tell you its your fault! No its his fault, if he starts down this road, firmly validate and re-interate that you will do some thing about it the minute you have time, and its for you to decide when that will be and him keeping on wont make it any quicker if anything delay the procedure and again the inevitable walk away.. or you could walk away go collect the equipment to clean the problem and then politely pass it to him and say "as its so urgent you might want to deal with it himself now" and again walk away..
You must stay as calm as you can and for as long as you can, only time will show him that he is the one doing the arguing and eventually he will see youre not taking the bait and joining in.. It your fault is a very childish and immature way of dealing with things but hopefully over time your C will give him better ways of dealing with it!
BTW H and I are still together the expectation I mentioned was way back in the summer when he first left..
Anyway thinking of you and hoping for a less stressful day for you tomorrow!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
