She must be seeing a lawyer...what now?

[Awoken]

After my talk sunday with W, we agreed to me watching the kids on MW, and W on TT, and the weekends are still up in the air.

Over the holidays we had some serious conflicts over who was spending time with the kids, and I took a stand that all communication should be between me and W, and that we should'nt put the kids in the middle of those kinds of decisions.

SO, After sundays talk, I sent W an email about my upcoming performance out of town. I'll be gone for 4 days over a weekend, and I've arranged for my father to take the kids to school.

I then said I would like to have the kids over the long weekend Jan 15-18 (MLK day is no school).

I then confirmed that I was agreeing that she could take the kids to Seattle over spring break in April.

She has not responded at all, and I feel like I need a reply from her about MLK weekend. I'm thinking about sending her another email about it saying "if I don't hear back from you in 24 hours, I'll assume that I'll have the kids with me that weekend".

Is this a good approach?