Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[Awoken]

(((JG)))
Good you took some time for yourself. It's tough enough with a WAS, but then it's also easy to feel like your home is gone too.

I was really feeling trapped in my own home too; I still do sometimes!. I redecorated the master bedroom for myself (W is in guest room). Maybe you could start changing the home to suit your needs, make some changes that make it new and more JanuaryGirl. Make it part of your 180's and GAL, and the home might be more comfortable for you when you are there.

You sound like you are making good preparations! Keep it up, especially the visualizations and prayer. You will have the strength for this.

Keep in mind, too, that even if you have the talk that it's not final. Many people here have separated, filed for D, and then reconciled.