[One more thing to add to Jack's excellent post...
She may try to say ridiculous things to push your buttons or get you into a confrontation so as to reenforce her own ideas about the marriage failure. Learn to let that stuff fall off your back like water on a duck. Believe 0% of what she says and only 50% of her actions.]
great advice. that is what she has done. and I take it hook line and sinker every time [/quote]
