((()))) Sorry you are going through this- it is amazing how "common" this problem/phenomenon is. I am trying to get my family to read smart cookies post on WAW so that they may understand why someone (W) could do what she's doing w/ little regard for anyone else. I understand it to a point, but it's most difficult understanding that the breakdown in the M is all fixable- trouble is whe the breakdown leads to a loss of love and hope. I know all I can control is myself, but man do I want to take the wheel- EVERYDAY!! Just wanted you to know you have my support. All the best