Love it P. I agree with you!! But I did see the L yesterday! I now have proof that I've been asking him for support and he denies it repeatedly. Not good for him. Don't worry, it's not hurting me now. I'm indifferent to his meanness. I can't prevent him from seeing the kids even though he is not giving money. I *am* stopping this train. Things are getting in order. I'm a bit cryptic as I had mentioned this forum to a wife of a coworker of his going through probs and now I'm suspicious.
You are a wonderful loving father P and I'm so, so glad that there are men out there like you!
Won't even mention what kind of father my H is being in the same sentence as you.
Thanks so much for rallying for me!!
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10