Not too shocking, is it? He hasn't been living in reality for a long time. He was making deals that were not any more real than the rest of his reality.
As far as the bonus thing goes, I think the best you can do is to have it included in the calculations. I'm guessing that means if he doesn't get the bonuses he'll have to prove it. If you took a percentage I'm ready to bet he would find a way to hide them.
Going to May 1 might not be a terrible compromise. For one thing, it's coming quickly! And it is well before you should have to worry about you job, right? So you will be covered as far as your biggest concerns.
I think you are right, if he gets an attorney, things are not going to get better.
