I will not get used to the roller coaster ride from her. This was not a roller coaster ride ride that happened this weekend--this was an absolute abandonment of any sense of civilization and humanity that her words and her father's actions are in any way an acceptable way to operate.
If I am confronted again in any way I will have that animal(FIL) thrown in jail and he can answer to his many issues (DUI, suspended license, debt collectors, bankruptcy filings, etc..) and if W lashes out again with such hateful words I will take my best shot at more than 50/50 custody. I realize that it is important to have mom in my son's life so I would not ever advocate cutting her completely out of the picture, but I will not have him raised in an environment with people that have such a low moral compass and to put it bluntly are that batshit nuts.
I am moving past the shocked stage I think and am now just incredibly angry.

H: 30
W: 31
S: 2
T/M: 6/4
D Final 4-5-10

Bomb: June 09
Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?