Thanks, blue. I am struggling right now with an awful cold, so I haven't been up to doing much. All I want to do when I'm awake is sleep, and when I try to sleep I have insomnia! But hopefully my new prescription will help with that.

On the marriage front...I'm not really sure. My H doesn't call or initiate much contact with me, but when we do talk he's fairly nice. I'm still kind of just waiting to see how it goes once I get to AZ. Then I can adjust my strategy. I'm current;y reading "How to Get Through to the Man You Love" but am trying to keep in mind that 99% of the suggestions are no good until he ends the A.

I'm trying to figure out whether or not to add some men to my FB. They're old classmates - grade school in fact. I think it would be kind of neat to reconnect, but I don't want H to think I'm dating or even looking because that's not it. And I know it drives me nuts that all but a few of his FB friends are women. Grrr...there are days when I hate the internet, even though I have this support system and can talk to friends. I met my ex OM online, my H met his OW online. It's just too easy!

I do have more to add, but I need to dress kiddos and get my oldest ready for preschool. Be back with more thoughts later! wink


undefeated 24
H 24
S's 4, 2, 1
M 5 yrs

"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie