oh and he didnt just date her when we were apart.. he met her at work in 2007 and by summer was sneaking out of the house to phone her on his mobile whilst we were very much living together and in a committed R ! I never got to the bottom of that one.. all he said since piecing was she was phoning him, to ask about his broken wrist, because they had become friendly at work...so he lied to me basically. I let that go though.
...He also was working with her 1:1 from May 2007, but besides chatting about all his workmates, he had never ever mentioned her name to me. A sure sign of guilty innapropriate feelings! She had a bf until April 08 though, I always felt intuitively that he DID fancy her summer 07 and that spurred him on to leave me (the only reason he gave me was 'noticing other girls now and thats not right'), but she was attached he didnt run off with her then. And funny coincidence they then started dating huh? He since admitted to me she finished with her bf for him!
So shes not just an exgf, she was the catalyst for him leaving, if that makes sense why I want the photos gone
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
