BEING NOSEY, NOW I HURT!!!!!!!!

[Treese]

Well Irmac.....don't think I've ever responded to you but you actually saved me today....I was just about to get on the internet and look up my H's name to see if I could see anything on him....I didn't and I won't...it's true, it does only hurt us..I did that in the beginning...all it did was make me crazy and hurt more...not worth it...

My H actually told me in the beginning that, well....his OW went back to school in her 30's and got her education degree, and is now a science teacher...wwwhhhoopppiieee...I just chose to marry him and have his children, and take care of everyone while he goes out to work "late" for years and then decides he doesnt want to be married to me anymore because, "I am what he always thought I was"...as he was looking me in the eye with those cruel eyes....

But....I told him I didnt care what she did or was...she will NEVER compare to me....I did see a pic of her not too long ago...she was a friend of ours from years ago...funny how they return...she was a piece of crap then, now she is dog dooooo on my shoe.....and her pic was awful....she used to be pretty, not no mo......inside or out.....

Anyhow thanks for saving me some pain for the day....

T