Well, I am fighting it today. I think I am still in the "shock mode". We have been seperated for 7 months and it is still hard to fathom the situation. However, I ask myself even if she were to have a change in heart, would I be able to work through it. I am still in crisis mode, so the answer right now would probably be yes. Later however, could I overcome the resentment? Do I honestly want to be with someone who is capable of such bad behaviors?
In my presence, my D6 told the W yesterday that she did no want her to be unmarried. The wife kind of shrugged it off with not much to say. The W is in such a differnt frame of mind right now and I am not sure who she is. Her judgement and aproach is so clouded. She is convinced she is on the right path. I wonder if things continue down this path and she for instance, marries the OM, will she ever understand the damage she has cuased and/or feel any remorse for her actions? Will she take any responsibility??!!
