Thanks guys. Another quick question I have...toward the beginning of this I lost my cell phone. Well we had joint accounts and I wanted to see if someone was using it (was it stolen) so I asked her for the password to the cell phone website. Said she didn't have it. She was the account manager so I told her I put lost password and it should send it to her phone. Said it didn't come. So she came over and I did it again, got into the account and seen that she had been txting an old highschool boyfriend. A lot. Confronted her and she said she just needed a friend to talk to and wanted to make peace with him (they had a bad breakup). After that she got the phones separated because she wanted "to pay her own bills." Yet that is the only bill she got separated. I brought this up several times and she gets mad about it, telling me I don't trust her. So I have not said anything about it in a long time. Now she always calls me and if I call her she will answer, so I don't think she is seeing this guy. I think maybe an EA. Today I was going to tell her I want to know the full truth from her (because I do) and ask her to see her cell phone. If she will let me look through the txts on it then she has nothing to hide. Should I do this or not? I really don't think she is cheating but then again everyone says that.
