The beginning.......well if that doesn't feel a thousand years ago now....
Then? I would have said I would never make it.....
Looking back ? Feels like yesterday, but a million years ago too..
I am curious, as I too, have a D12, and although I have been over two years now. A Jan 15th move out from her is on the horizon.
I will have both kids 4 nights a week, and I will be the one to help pick up their pieces in this.
Grace, Peace, KJ,....Would it be awkward for me to have a sit down once a week with just her ?
She has been more affectionate towards her Mother lately, and I can see that she is being more clingy with her.
Anticipation I would assume.....anticipation that she knows that her Mother is moving out.
When I started seeing this a few months ago, I assumed it was because they were both girls ( and around the same age mentally ).
Since that time, I have realized that it was not about that, it was about the fact that she was searching for guidance from a Mother......not a best girlfriend.
I want the best for BOTH my children.....My son ?
He will rock, cause I know how to deal with his feelings on this, having been there.
My Daughter ? Not so much....but I am learning, slowly.
Women and Men think so differently, and I am learning that starts early.....LOL
