Ok guys - tell me what you think - hope I was brief and clear enough
I think you're spending wayyy too much time trying to read his mind.
You've accused him of being nervous, trying to reassure you, trying to play it cool so you won't suspect anything, suspecting you of spying on him, trying to employ reverse psychology on you, and possibly planning to put a keylogger on your phone.
And that is over the course of 24 hours!
You've also admitted that you do things intentionally to see how he reacts, but then you're surprised when he is bothered? (And it's okay because he's hurt you too?)
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement