I am getting a history lesson in Greek mythology.....
<<that doesnt mean he is elsewhere with his mind or heart>>
ok so we figured out what it does not mean....now if we can only put our finger on what it does mean.
Anyhow, it sounds like you guys are headed in the right direction. Maybe the choice of movies should be looked at more closely and maybe the outbursts need to be controlled .... just need to crack that wall a little because talking to a wall can become boring. I am still perplexed with the abstinence...but I may be obsessed.