Good morning both of you! Wonderful, I just got started on the book. I like it. She blames me for her problems. I liked the opening about the fat unhealthy guy who has the MI.
MF, I have been thinking of ways to get your hubby to wake up and notice you.
Bad start to the day for me. I use a ihome to wake up to music from my iPhone. Today I was awakened to the following song "so happy" by theory of a deadman.
I didn't download this. I have never heard it before. No playlist. It's my wife's. Anyhow, this song had somehow been set to wake me up today.
I hope she didn't set it at this because that was a real cold low blow.
Below are the lyrics
Put the bottle down, finally got something to say Take another look around and find someone else to play Needless to say that you’ve got problems There’s no f***ing way that I’m gonna solve them It’s never the same every time you slip, then you fall down, down, down.
Ever wonder what I been thinking about? I been thinking bout throwing you out
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way I’m so happy that I threw you away
Put your problems down and pick up what’s left of the pain. Take a good look at yourself and see who’s really to blame. Needless to say you got issues There’s no f***ing way that I’m gonna fix you It’s never the same ever since you went falling down, down, down.
Ever wonder what I been thinking about? I been thinking bout throwing you out
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way. I’m so happy that I threw you away.
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through.I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way I’m so happy that I threw you away
Ugh! I won't give her the satisfaction to tell her I heard this.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
Those lyrics are pretty harsh and would be a really low blow if she did set that song to start when you woke up.
Focus on you and try not to let it get to you. I also wouldn't say anything to her but that is just me. I have been dealing with my sitch for only 4 months so don't have much advice to offer.
However, stay strong and take it one day at a time.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
I liked the opening about the fat unhealthy guy who has the MI.
I thought you would like that opening. I certainly thought of you when I read it. I guess the author was refereing a classic ST elevation type MI. One of the things I am really trying to focus on in Real Love is how it applies to me, not how it applies to her. It is challenging but it is a way to take control of the things I can take control of and responsibility for. It is very healing to know that I am not responsible for her anger but there are things I can do to listen and not let my hurt and anger be triggered.
Remember when we invaded Panama? As I recall, we sat outside the Marcos' compound and blasted the Rolling Stones till they couldn't take it anymore.
Apparently, she pays attention to your music. Thus, an opportunity to disrupt her system. I do not advocate returning fire. What kind of music do you typically listen to, Doc? Maybe you could start waking up to something uncharacteristic. Perhaps you could incorporate some leasons from the art of seduction in your selections.
Good morning both of you! Wonderful, I just got started on the book. I like it. She blames me for her problems. I liked the opening about the fat unhealthy guy who has the MI.
MF, I have been thinking of ways to get your hubby to wake up and notice you.
Bad start to the day for me. I use a ihome to wake up to music from my iPhone. Today I was awakened to the following song "so happy" by theory of a deadman.
I didn't download this. I have never heard it before. No playlist. It's my wife's. Anyhow, this song had somehow been set to wake me up today.
I hope she didn't set it at this because that was a real cold low blow.
Below are the lyrics
Put the bottle down, finally got something to say Take another look around and find someone else to play Needless to say that you’ve got problems There’s no f***ing way that I’m gonna solve them It’s never the same every time you slip, then you fall down, down, down.
Ever wonder what I been thinking about? I been thinking bout throwing you out
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way I’m so happy that I threw you away
Put your problems down and pick up what’s left of the pain. Take a good look at yourself and see who’s really to blame. Needless to say you got issues There’s no f***ing way that I’m gonna fix you It’s never the same ever since you went falling down, down, down.
Ever wonder what I been thinking about? I been thinking bout throwing you out
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way. I’m so happy that I threw you away.
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through.I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way I’m so happy that I threw you away
Ugh! I won't give her the satisfaction to tell her I heard this.
Counter-intuitive.... You will give her the satisfaction, tell her you heard this. Ask her if she loaded this tune on your ipod. Then tell her that lately it has been your favorite tune, go out and buy the cd and you've been playing it in your vehicle at at work all the time. (Go out and buy the cd)
Tell her thank you for loading that tune on your system because you've been listening to that tune repeatedly quite a bit lately, it's been an eye opener for you.
Counter intuitive, it's like judo, use what they do and give it back to them with your own twist to it.
Gauge her reaction, she trying to deflate your recent display of big masculine balls, show her they are still in place. Have a smile on your face, not an arrogant prick smile but a confident, happy, awesome to be alive smile.
This is an opportunity, take advantage of it, blast that ipod system in the morning, you love that tune, it was written for you - turn it around.
Good morning both of you! Wonderful, I just got started on the book. I like it. She blames me for her problems. I liked the opening about the fat unhealthy guy who has the MI.
MF, I have been thinking of ways to get your hubby to wake up and notice you.
Bad start to the day for me. I use a ihome to wake up to music from my iPhone. Today I was awakened to the following song "so happy" by theory of a deadman.
I didn't download this. I have never heard it before. No playlist. It's my wife's. Anyhow, this song had somehow been set to wake me up today.
I hope she didn't set it at this because that was a real cold low blow.
Below are the lyrics
Put the bottle down, finally got something to say Take another look around and find someone else to play Needless to say that you’ve got problems There’s no f***ing way that I’m gonna solve them It’s never the same every time you slip, then you fall down, down, down.
Ever wonder what I been thinking about? I been thinking bout throwing you out
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way I’m so happy that I threw you away
Put your problems down and pick up what’s left of the pain. Take a good look at yourself and see who’s really to blame. Needless to say you got issues There’s no f***ing way that I’m gonna fix you It’s never the same ever since you went falling down, down, down.
Ever wonder what I been thinking about? I been thinking bout throwing you out
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way. I’m so happy that I threw you away.
Chorus I’m so happy about you .I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I’m so happy now we’re through.I’m fed up, so get up and get out. I was so afraid, now you’re gone away Sent you packing, look who’s laughing now I’m so happy that I feel this way I’m so happy that I threw you away
Ugh! I won't give her the satisfaction to tell her I heard this.
Counter-intuitive.... You will give her the satisfaction, tell her you heard this. Ask her if she loaded this tune on your ipod. Then tell her that lately it has been your favorite tune, go out and buy the cd and you've been playing it in your vehicle at at work all the time. (Go out and buy the cd)
Tell her thank you for loading that tune on your system because you've been listening to that tune repeatedly quite a bit lately, it's been an eye opener for you.
Counter intuitive, it's like judo, use what they do and give it back to them with your own twist to it.
Gauge her reaction, she trying to deflate your recent display of big masculine balls, show her they are still in place. Have a smile on your face, not an arrogant prick smile but a confident, happy, awesome to be alive smile.
This is an opportunity, take advantage of it, blast that ipod system in the morning, you love that tune, it was written for you - turn it around.
Do you see this?
The old 180 the drama queen trick.
Quote:
He who laughs last on the first joke laughs first on the second. - Bazooka Joe
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
