The still be friendly part is hard. I was doing well with it up until this week. Dottie the DB counselor told me to act "as if" this is all a phase and it will work out.
But the ups and downs of the holidays really got to me and now I'm meeting with an L on Friday and when W called last night to make several schedule change requests for her job, I just sat there on the telephone stewing.
I'm going to struggle with friendly for the next couple of weeks.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6